Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

While I don’t consider chastity to be our inaugural kink, it might well be the final one given my age and current situation. My history is a bit unique. From age fourteen until now, I’ve only had three partners, all of whom are bisexual. Throughout adulthood, every lover has been bi as well. This is just how life looks for me, so I see no issue with my wife enjoying women nearly as much as I do. In our younger days we experimented with swinging and swapping wives, explored cuckolding, and eventually found a home in BDSM. For the majority of our marriage, we shared one girlfriend (who happens to be married to another cuckold), creating a bond that felt rock-solid compared to my past experiences. Reading this topic makes me chuckle because it sounds delightfully chaotic; up until now, I’ve never been truly monogamous.

I stumbled upon chastity after settling down as just the two of us. Suddenly our sex life became routine because my wife and I have different preferences that were usually met by the women we dated together. Chastity gave me that little bit of D/s dynamic I crave while letting my wife steer our sexual direction. That’s how I got here. What about you?