Introductions discussion

I only own a CB6000s. It feels good for roughly eight hours each day. Beyond that, I develop tender spots on my skin regardless of how often I try to take it slow and gradually increase the time spent in extended wear. The skin around my scrotum is sensitive even when not wearing the CB6000, which has led me to visit the dermatologist a few times for this issue. I’ve seen many posts claiming that the CB6000 isn’t truly designed for long-term use, and I agree with them. Still, the other options don’t appeal to me.

While I would love wearing a custom-fitted chastity device around the clock, the whole process of measuring (which doesn’t guarantee comfort), waiting months for it to be crafted, and then dealing with the inevitable back-and-forth adjustments seems like too much hassle. I just feel that isn’t worth it because I’m not quite as obsessed with devices as some others are. I can manage two full days and nights locked up, but after that, I need a break. However, if I don’t take a break for several days, those sore spots rarely heal completely. Today I plan to ask my wife if she minds me wearing it only when we aren’t together. After all, I won’t be masturbating while we watch TV side-by-side.

I propose that because of the constant soreness, she lets me put it on after dinner and take it off when I wake up. Naturally, this also applies to times when we are apart, except perhaps when I’m driving alone. There’s no way I can get comfortable driving with the CB attached. I’ve tried multiple times; between my car seats and aging testicles, it just doesn’t work for me.

I see nothing wrong with wanting comfort alongside my chastity practice. Whether or not I wear a device, I am still practicing chastity, but sometimes I feel that some people focus too much on the gadget itself. I get that because I also enjoy specific sexual acts only when certain toys are involved. Regarding devices, I find them necessary mostly at particular times and somewhat of an annoyance to wear. It’s been about ten months since I last masturbated, regardless of whether I was locked up or not. From my perspective, it was me who asked for chastity, so I have no reason to ruin what I requested. It was hard at first, but now that I’ve grown accustomed to getting my sexual satisfaction from my wife, it’s become much easier. I barely think about touching myself, even when watching porn. In fact, the chastity play seems to be making erections a bit difficult for me. My doctor gave me some samples without knowing why (I didn’t mention the CB), and he handed over a card for three free Viagra pills. I picked them up last weekend. I’ve used them recreationally before when they first launched, back when there were more women to please.

My wife has other plans though; she wants me to take one once my Points of Intrigue arrive this week. She says she’ll enjoy watching me squirm if I struggle not to get hard because of the medication. It should be an entertaining weekend. Back on topic, I’ve noticed that some men who receive a custom device and rave about it often end up getting another and yet another in their quest for the perfect piece. I read through posts from experienced players, and it’s uncommon to see someone sticking with the same devices for long periods. There always seems to be something better or more comfortable available on the market. Some want to test every top-tier device out there. Others act like Houdini, seeking that one escape-proof model.

I think most people into chastity are similar to me. Maybe I’m mistaken because unlike my other interests, I don’t personally know anyone else deeply involved in it. We had swinger clubs, wife-swapping groups, and BDSM communities, but no dedicated Chastity clubs at all!

To me, the destination matters more than how we get there. What about you?