Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

In April’s first week I finished up two years of living in chastity. My wife took to it, and she did so with more seriousness than I expected! I had assumed that she would grant me occasional breaks. But no, I was mistaken. She allows a release only during PIV intercourse, and as soon as we are done, she quickly locks me back up again. She handles my shaving and cleaning by binding my hands behind my back so I cannot touch my instrument. Occasionally, particularly when nocturnal erections keep me awake, I recall the pre-chastity days when I could handle & play with my instrument whenever I pleased, masturbate, watch porn videos, wear tight trousers, swim, etc I undoubtedly enjoy my chastity, yet these thoughts do cross my mind once in a while! By the way, upon completing 2 years of being locked up, she announced that PIV sex frequency will gradually drop to just 4-5 times per year! She plans to order a dildo so she doesn’t have to compromise on her own pleasure!