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As the title implies, this isn’t my first time in chastity so let me start with our background. My wife and I have been married for over 25 years and we learned to be open with each other early on. I told her about how I was turned on by BDSM and submitting to a woman right off the bat and that was where things started. My wife loves to fuck and likes kink and about the only thing she draws the line at is she is NEVER submissive and she doesn’t like anything to do with foot fetish. We got into bondage and discipline games and we eventually got to a point where my wife would go out partying with her girlfriends and would leave me home tied to our bed and blindfolded so I couldn’t really tell how long she was gone. A couple of times she even brought a friend into the room with her when she returned and showed how she would leave me while she was out with them! As time went by she was becoming bolder in her dominance! The point where things took a change was the night she went out with some girlfriends to a local bar to see a male stripper show that was in town. As usual she left me tied and blindfolded in the bed, with the promise that she would return very horny and aroused. When she finally came home she never said a word, just undressed and pulled the blanket back and started stroking me. This wasn’t unusual because she had done the same thing when she had brought her friends home and let them fondle me. I wouldn’t know there were two of them until they would start talking. This time it was just her and she finally said to me “I had a great time tonight, but I have to make a confession. I hope you won’t be mad, but I gave a blow job to one of the strippers!” I told her I wasn’t upset and was in fact totally turned on that she had done that! She said she was glad I was okay with it, as she would like to start doing more than just partying with her girlfriends. She said she would like to be able to fuck another guy once in a while if I was okay with it. All during the conversation she never quit stroking me and by this time I was so aroused I would have agreed to just about anything, she knew exactly what she was doing! I reminded her that she was the one in charge and she could do whatever she wanted. She then mounted me and as she lowered herself onto me she said I had better be ready to spend more time tied, as she would be coming home a lot later. For some time after that she would go out with her friends and every now and then hook up with a guy. She would always tell me about it when she returned home, usually while riding my erection while I was still tied up. One night she came home and as soon as I heard her come into the room she climbed onto the bed without saying anything and immediately straddled my face and had me start eating her pussy! I hadn’t heard her undress, so I assumed she had stripped before coming in the room which was a little unusual. After a couple of minutes she said “How do you like the taste of your best friend’s cum in your wife’s pussy? I just fucked him in our driveway and came straight in here without even dressing so you could taste him!” I had never done anything like that before, but when she told me what I was tasting I found that it turned me on! She later told me what a huge turn-on it was for her to know I was home tied up and unable to do anything but think about her being out fucking another man! My wife cuckolded me several times like that through the years and we tried swinging for a couple of years too, but gave up on that after getting fed up up with all the fakes and phonies and the B.S. Shortly after we quit the swinging scene my wife also quit going out and seeing other guys too. It seemed like everything extramarital just kind of stopped and my wife said she just wasn’t interested in it anymore. Several years later she confessed to me that the reason she stopped was because she had started having some very strong feelings for a guy she had started seeing on a regular basis, and it scared her that it could possibly break us up. It had taken her a long time to be able to tell me that she had started to fall in love with him.