fortheluvofit Starting Out on a Chastity Path

Hi there. I’m Shawn. A while ago, I stumbled upon a YouTube podcast discussing “Locktober.” It really caught my attention and intrigued me. Being someone with a bit of kink in them already, I thought to myself… yeah, that’s for me.

My wife has dealt with various health issues over the years, so her libido is pretty much non-existent. For all intents and purposes, we’ve been living in a sexless marriage for quite some time. Because my own drive remains high, I had to handle things on my own for years now. Mostly, I would release daily, sometimes twice or even three times if it was a good day.

As the years went by, I basically stopped trying or asking my wife of 27 years for any kind of sexual stimulation. However, after watching that podcast, something shifted. Chastity just felt… right for us. I sensed a connection to chastity and believed this could work within our dynamic, perhaps even reigniting some spark in our marriage if she agrees to be my key holder.

I practically texted her at work immediately afterward, offering full surrender if it didn’t bother her. She didn’t exactly say yes or no; instead, she just apologized for not being sexually active lately. I sent her a couple of links from the podcast and reminded her that I was ready and willing whenever she decided. I even included a screenshot of the cage I chose: the 3D Cobra.

I’ve been in the cage on my own for five days now, and for the most part, I love it. I’m enjoying the denial and the helplessness of not being able to release whenever I want. Right now, I am still holding the keys myself. I was planning to give her the key on day five because it happened to be her birthday. I bought one of those necklaces with a heart-shaped key that I hope she will wear with love and pride.

I didn’t hand it over right then because our son had just given her a beautiful mother’s heart necklace for both Mother’s Day and her birthday, and I didn’t want to overshadow his gift. But I plan on giving it to her very soon! My biggest wish is that she accepts the key and allows me to give her the devotion she deserves.

She is also navigating some challenges with her father who is ill. He isn’t exactly an easy patient if you know what I mean. Lol!! Kind of a grumpy old man.

So, this is my way of saying: I see that you are going through things too, and I understand. I am ready to go through it alongside you. I don’t know… maybe I’m living in some kind of fantasy land thinking she will accept this without viewing me as a freak or weirdo.

Anyway, this is my first week on the journey into the world of chastity. Thank you for listening.