orgasm using a facial massager

Hi there, I took a break from chastity and denial about a few years back for various reasons. I still have dreams of it occasionally, and sometimes experience an orgasm that feels ruined. Having practiced for so long, I know the sensation well. The other day my wife helped me climax using something like this:

Even though the climax wasn’t technically ruined, there was a sense of “incompleteness” in the satisfaction (apologies if my English isn’t perfect). By the next day, I felt aroused just as I would after a proper ruin. Does anyone have experience with these less common tools?