What Part Does Chastity Take In Your Life?

I’m interested in finding out where everyone stands on this. It would be great to know if any couples here have experienced the same reaction from both partners.

Also, did the dynamic shift as time went by? In my case, it began with me alone until I gathered enough courage to ask my wife to become my KH. Then it became a periodic enhancement, and now it shapes our sexual relationship (though not our whole marriage; I don’t believe it ever will, but that’s just how we are—you might be different).