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Hello everyone. I have used inexpensive eBay cages before, usually for short periods of one or two days back when I was single. Now that my long-term relationship is deepening and becoming more serious, I decided to invest in a higher-end option and purchased an MM Jailbird. Although it has been adjusted three times already, I still struggle to keep it on for longer than two weeks. I absolutely love the sensation of having my penis owned and restricted from self-pleasure. My desire is strong to remain locked continuously, but both my Key Holder (KH) and I often have to take breaks every few weeks because I develop ball burn and sores. We need to give myself a couple of weeks off to heal before locking up again. This routine also involves unlocking every one to three days for a deep clean.
I just can’t seem to find the perfect cage. Once, while away from my KH for a few days without access to her key, the pain at work became unbearable—I literally couldn’t walk without looking strange. Because it is so securely fitted as designed, I didn’t know how to escape laterally or vertically. When she finally unlocked me that evening, there were significant sores reaching the point of bleeding. She felt terrible on my behalf because I want to be truly “kept” for her enjoyment.
I simply want a solution where I can stay locked without interruption. I am doing this for her pleasure, but growing increasingly frustrated by the lack of a proper fit or workable solution with current options. The MM Jailbird is suitable for short durations, yet even after three adjustments, it still doesn’t last as long as I’d like.
If anyone has suggestions regarding other brands, techniques, or tips to help us out, please share them. My love for her and my passion for chastity are strong; I just want the ability to stay locked continuously, though I am losing hope in further adjustments with my current Jailbird. Thank you in advance.