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For me, this has been a fun and engaging experience. It started seven years back when I saw some related content online and got curious. On impulse, I ordered a cage even though I had never worn one before. When I tried it out initially, things didn’t go smoothly; fitting it correctly was tricky, and my frequent urges made it hard to keep on until I eventually put it aside.
Four years later, more online content rekindled my interest. This time around, I did some proper research, exploring both the good and bad sides of Reddit, which helped me learn how to measure up for a smaller cage that would likely fit better by then. During this period, I also introduced the concept to what is now my husband (then boyfriend). He was initially a bit skeptical but accepted it as playtime gear without giving it much deeper thought. When we played together while wearing it, he found it enjoyable, though the size still wasn’t quite right.
Over the past three years, I’ve gathered nearly six different cages. It wasn’t until 2025 that I finally found one in the perfect fit. Gradually, my wear pattern shifted from just during play to occasional multi-day periods because earlier models weren’t comfortable enough for longer durations. My husband slowly warmed up to the idea of me wearing it more often, though he hadn’t fully embraced it yet. He was very supportive when I took the cage traveling in late 2023; that trip went well, but I could still only wear it comfortably for a few days at a time.
Fast forward to early 2025: I found my ideal cage with zero issues. I discussed wearing it more frequently with my husband as part of our weight-loss goal. He agreed it sounded enjoyable and gave his support. Since around the beginning of 2025, I’ve been continuously locked and loving every moment. While he has let me out a few times to orgasm, it happens far less than the one to three times daily routine I had previously. Additionally, losing ten pounds significantly boosted my self-confidence. Now, honestly, I don’t see myself wanting to be unlocked lol. We also noticed that while locked, when I do orgasm, my load is much larger—a result both he and I really enjoy.
I have CMC arthritis in both hands, so gripping or grabbing things can sometimes hurt. Previously, the frequent jacking off wasn’t helping matters either. So far, being locked for 45 days has been a massive relief for my hands lol. The best part came just a few days ago when I asked my husband how he feels about me being caged and what his thoughts are now. He mentioned that he likes it, finds it fun with me, and loves seeing me happy! It melted my heart; I thought he would never fully come around, but here we are in 2025 proving anything is possible!
Here’s to more locked days, further weight loss, fewer orgasms, less hand pain, and lots of enjoyment. Thanks for following my journey so far. Feel free to leave comments below:)