Reducing Size

We have only been on this journey a short time, but I confess to having purchased seven different cages in that time. Each one being smaller and although I tried a flat cage, it was both distinctly uncomfortable to the point where I could only wear it for about an hour and a half. I have found a really comfortable cage that it 42mm long and I can pee easily wearing it, and a smaller 32mm, but this really needs the Urethra tube (metal 55mm came with it) and I just struggle with the tube. I can live with the cage without it and love the “snugness” of it. My wife hates the flat cage, (so that’s a bonus) but loves the HT V2 metal, the 42mm birdcage and the 32mm open cage so I will be locked in these at her choice. If I thought I could cope with it, I would go inverted, but as I can’t cope with the flat cage, that’s not an option. I’m interested in the mindset of wanting to go smaller and smaller as I have. Does everyone want this (or your keyholder)?