Several of you might be aware that I moderate a few Reddit communities. While my goal is to provide sensible guidance, occasionally I hit a snag.

Here’s something someone shared earlier today. Does anyone have ideas on what this guy ought to do?

Hello all, I trust this is the correct spot for discussing my first submission to my wife and introducing her to chastity. Background: I am preparing to submit myself to my wife, letting her know about chastity with a ritual in mind. I’m posting here because I haven’t really found any suitable or normal rituals yet. I’d love all your suggestions or thoughts on this plan. Planned date: November 1st (assuming the cage arrives in time) Steps:

• Decorating the room and preparing written papers that explain the kinky gift she will receive, what it is, along with some resource links, benefits for her, risks, and boundaries. (I’ll set up my own boundaries as part of another ritual to fully submit to her will about 2-3 months later)
• My wife will take time getting ready in whatever sexy outfit she prefers, while I wait for her in whichever position she chooses (like kneeling) with my hands tied behind me and the base ring on, perhaps wearing a mask. When my wife arrives, the husband kisses her feet twice—once upon greeting and once more. He isn’t allowed to look up until given permission; he keeps his gaze downward always. The wife then speaks from the heart (whatever she pleases: sexual, emotional, financial, or anything else). The husband begs for punishment and receives spanking until his backside is red and his wife is pleased. (There might be a butt plug involved.) Afterward, the wife asks him to prove his commitment, so he begs her to lock him up. She plays with his cock, making it erect as she wishes but preventing climax. Then she uses ice or waits for the hard shaft to soften before locking him in place. He thanks her for the lockdown. He pledges loyalty to his wife and assures her that he won’t object if she meets her sexual needs even when out with another man. They take photos together, completing the ritual with a kiss. Please share your thoughts.