Four Years of Thanks

I’ve hit my four-year chastiversary.. Or three years for us, depending on your perspective. It recently struck me that even though it seems like not much has shifted over the past year or two, that’s actually not true. Things are progressing at C’s rhythm, so they’re moving along just right. I have no idea what lies ahead, but I’m eager for it. We’ve found a better footing now as a family and partners, as friends, and as husband and wife. I don’t feel dominated or mistreated or any of the ‘textbook’ reactions you might expect. Instead, I feel like a devoted, loving, and deeply loved husband. I feel blessed, fortunate, and full of life. When I first started exploring this world and discovered real people actually living it.. (thanks to Tom and Thumper by the way (TnT). Well, I wasn’t hunting for what they had in terms of kink or their journey. What resonated with me was their solid relationship. One that was clearly maturing. They were drawing nearer, and while this is how all couples ought to be, it often isn’t. My path is entirely different, and these days I don’t have specific goals set out there. I push forward, I’m cheeky about it, and either it works or it hurts. My personality hasn’t changed; if anything, I am more ‘myself’ than ever before, and the beautiful part is that’s exactly who C fell in love with.. Today C sent me a sudden text “I love you, I’d be completely lost without you. Thank you for loving me too. See you later 😘❤️💋💕🗝️🔒💋💕❤️xxxx Wow! That says it all.