Still Waiting for That Reward

My wife of fifty years just experienced four orgasms in under five minutes, with only one involving her vibrator.

After eleven years together, we believed our time with chastity was over. I didn’t really care whether I had an orgasm or not; since I rarely felt horny and it took nearly an hour to cum once the urge hit—leaving me rubbed raw—we paused for about six months or more. We lost track of time.

We started using medical marijuana, and now we’re both constantly aroused. I was jerking off twice a day, waking up in the night to do it again just so I could return to sleep. That’s when I decided: no more orgasms for me, and at seventy-one, I’m locked up 24/7 once more. When we engage in our fetish lifestyle, we get serious about it.

Being locked down does affect me. I occasionally feel jolts of pre-orgasm pleasure coursing through my body wherever I am. After living with two women for thirty years and coming three times a night on most nights—once during threesomes and once each with my wife and our girlfriend during individual time—I’ve had plenty of action. The point is, after having so many orgasms (assuming just one per instance and not counting any girls I was with before returning home), I came frequently. My wife says I owe it to the life she gave me where I enjoyed numerous orgasms.

It feels like our first time starting chastity play. Right now, for example, I’m getting sexual surges because I didn’t come during sex, yet my penis was both tortured and pleased by some manual stimulation. The only issue is that if I show any signs of pleasure, my wife stops what she’s doing. She hasn’t allowed me to penetrate her in over twenty years. Oral sex happened a few years back, but today I’m permitted this kind of play with her clit manually, which I did three times tonight. She was exhausted, and I was extremely horny.

So, I’m back in the saddle again. The one thing I truly mind about chastity is cleanup after peeing. No more quick pees and getting right back to business. Now it’s a process involving squirt bottles, rags, swabs, plus mouthwash. TIP: Add about 10-20% mouthwash to a water-filled squirt bottle. Fill the rest with water and use it to rinse inside your chastity device. This prevents odors. My Holy Trainer Nub is the most comfortable device for me; I’ve tried around fourteen or more, including custom-made ones. The problem was that after many years of being caged, my little guy shrank, causing all other cage rings to fall off at one time or another. Only the HT nub design keeps my Nub securely in place. So I’m comfortable and enjoy orgasm denial, though I dislike sitting down to pee and cleaning up afterward.