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Part of this will be repeated since I’ve shared our situation in other threads, but I want to document the full journey and see how it unfolds. My name is Nikki and my husband J has a kinky side. For years, I have happily indulged his fantasies as much as I can, while keeping within my own boundaries. Along with enjoying chastity play, J fantasizes about being cuckolded and also enjoys cleanup.
J proposed enforced male chastity roughly five years ago. We tried it intermittently for a few years; I appreciated some parts but found others lacking. He tended to complicate things too much with excessive rules and punishments, which felt overwhelming. Recently, he has been asking to try again. The timing feels right now (my job is more stable since I transitioned to regular day shifts at the hospital). I told him that this time around, I will only play if we follow my rules:
- We continue for as long as I desire. If he wants out, it is truly over and may not restart.
- The default state is no ejaculation. If I want him to cum, I will instruct him; otherwise, I do not wish for him to ask me. Silence means no.
- He wanted a cage to wear during my work hours (I am at the hospital while he often works from home). Cages are not particularly arousing to me because they make a man’s impressive cock look small and pitiful. I prefer a large, proud, erect penis ready for action rather than one tucked away in the corner. He can wear it provided he buys it and handles maintenance; I will simply take his key from him and return it when I arrive home.
He had clearly been thinking deeply about this game because he was visibly aroused. Last Friday, we began our new chastity routine with a blowjob for him. He finished quickly (which suits my preference perfectly) and produced quite a lot in my mouth. I carefully pulled away, moved up his body, and gave him a firm kiss along with all of his cum. This was an excellent start because that kind of cum play arouses him greatly, so he remained right back at high arousal levels as the game began.
Somewhere during this process, he ordered his cage; I believe it arrived on Tuesday or Wednesday. On Thursday morning, just before heading out, he gave me a hug and kiss and presented his key attached to a small chain for him to wear around his neck. This will be our new routine, which I am enjoying. Any day he works from the home office, I receive a nice kiss and sendoff along with his key.
I asked him, “What if my colleagues at work ask what this key is for?” He replied, “Just tuck it into your scrubs.” I said, “Yes, but it might fall out,” and he blushed. So I realized that he gets turned on by the thought of being discovered. More about that later regarding the end of our first week.
When I returned home that evening, I inspected the envelope containing his spare key; it was undisturbed. I think he appreciated me checking. And so we are off and running. I will create a second post here since a full week has passed and I have more updates.