Questions for those who self-lock

It seems like I cycle through different phases. There are times when I am super pumped about MC, and other times I just don’t really feel it. I still lock myself in anyway. The fit is good enough, with no major issues regarding the device itself. It’s a bit lonely doing this on my own though. Do any other self-lockers ever get discouraged because they aren’t sure if there’s much real benefit to MC? My wife shows absolutely no interest whatsoever.

On days when I feel better, my dedication is strong because I want to keep myself for her. The only time it comes off is for cleaning before going right back in. No erections happen unless she’s involved; otherwise, o without her doesn’t work for me. Sometimes I wish she’d at least give some acknowledgment of what I’m doing. For a lot of people, the reality differs quite a bit from the fantasy play scenario. Better days are coming!

We are all built differently. I’m significantly older than you and still get great enjoyment out of MC. To start with, ever since I first saw a photo of a chastity device, the look has appealed to me, and now that I own my first one, the feel is very stimulating for both my mind and penis... particularly loving the sensation of being unable to achieve an erection even when stimulated. My Journal records solo games designed to boost mental and physical stimulation, plus methods by which I’ve managed to get my vanilla wife at least passively involved in giving me that stimulation over recent years. Even small steps forward feel very exciting, though deep down I know she will never become fully engaged.