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I ran into a Dominant on reddit recently who was asking about chastity since she and her husband are just starting out. Naturally, I wrote quite a bit but tried to provide plenty of help so they can sidestep the pitfalls I’ve encountered.
The conversation turned to different cages as she looked at nub-style designs. She found them interesting but worried about long-term compression on the urethra and wasn’t sure if it would lead to problems. It doesn’t seem like a major issue for me, though I’m no urologist so who am I to say?
I’m reaching out here for anyone with experience to weigh in. Anecdotal evidence is a great starting point, so your insights are welcome.
Also, besides asking people already practicing chastity, do you know where else one might research this specific topic online? There are databases like those from NCSF listing kink-friendly doctors, but I don’t plan on booking an appointment for something that doesn’t directly affect me. Are there knowledgeable experts or physicians online who answer questions? I recall a female expert—she was dominant, if memory serves—who ran an old-school forum-style message board where you could post queries. Her name escapes me now, though she seems fairly well-known in the community based on what I recall. I picked up so much reading her boards back around twenty years ago.
Thanks!