She takes the next step

Let me begin by saying I’ve been married to my wife for 18 years, and she is incredibly attractive. She has a very curvy figure with large breasts that she loves displaying in tight tops. Our sex life was always great until the kids arrived, and we got caught up in daily routines. We drifted apart both emotionally and physically. I’ve always been interested in male chastity but lacked the courage to mention it. I found myself watching porn and masturbating constantly. My wife wasn’t thrilled when she discovered this habit.

So… was now the time to explain my fantasy of being locked up… holy crap… I was nervous, afraid she’d think I was crazy. I decided to bring it up while we were cuddling in bed one morning. She liked the idea but wasn’t completely comfortable with it yet… She didn’t fully understand why I wanted it but agreed to try it out. I bought a cb6000 and we started experimenting. Over time, she grew more comfortable with it,, even looking up different cages on her own. (Wow!! What a huge surprise and such a turn-on!) That was 7 years ago.

In that time, we slowly evolved and learned what each other wanted and how we felt about our activities.( building trust and understanding takes time in this chastity lifestyle) We always just played when traveling … like going to Vancouver for concerts where she’d lock me up and dress all sexy. We’d go out and see who was checking her out! That turned me on, and she knew it… ( It also drove her wild knowing I had my cage on while other men looked at her!) After the concert and many drinks, we’d return to our hotel for playtime where she’d tell me about all the guys she noticed. (It makes my cock hard every time!) She would make me cum, then unlock me so I could have sex with her!! This became our new game that we played as often as possible. We both loved it!

As I said, this was a playful arrangement rather than an everyday routine for us initially. Over time, I began masturbating more frequently and she wasn’t always aware of how often but noticed my attitude shift because I seemed so drained all the time. This brings us to our current crossroad …she got a new job in a production shop where 80% of her coworkers are men…I’ve always fantasized about other women checking me out, though usually it was other men looking at her that turned me on; but this is different because she’ll be around these guys all day. We have great trust between us, but the fact that they would be eyeing my wife every day took some getting used to…(I lost my job due to covid so I’m home with lots of free time… and started masturbating again which changed my mood … I became irritable and jealous, knowing it wasn’t good for us. So I began locking up before she left for work in the morning and putting the keys in her car trunk without telling her what I was doing. I’d unlock when she got home to ensure I hadn’t jerked off that day. I kept this routine going and my moods improved; we started reconnecting emotionally like old times! Finally, I decided to tell her what I had been up to and asked if she was okay with it… well she was absolutely fine with it and decided that from now on, I would stay locked in my chastity cage every day while she works! She has taken the step and feels this being locked up is working for our marriage. It’s staying this way until I return to work. I love her for it, and she likes knowing that the only time I cum is when she lets me!

I went from having sex 6 or 7 days a week to just four orgasms last month. She’s so happy, which is what matters most! I’ll keep you updated on how things change. It took a long time to get here but has been worth every second!

As mentioned before, my wife and I have been progressing down this road of chastity for many years now. For the most part, it was always a game rather than a full lifestyle change. There were times when our playtime gaps felt longer than I wanted because she hadn’t fully discovered the true benefits of chastity yet. Recently with covid happening, she told me that she wants me locked up while she is at work... well... that seems to have struck a cord with her🙂 because last night she just said how happy she was with my mood and the way I’ve been treating her. I am providing the emotional connection she has needed. This is the first time we have had a degree of regularity with chastity. Turns out I won’t be getting out as often as before. She noticed the difference and likes it!