Locked Husband The Letter That Started It All

Here is the letter I sent to my wife regarding a long-term commitment.

Dear Wife,

Let me begin by expressing how much I love and adore you.

It took me some time to finally give you this note. For ages, I had come up with fairly lousy excuses to myself for not handing it over. I was wondering if we could try this again. By which I mean chastity. Please don’t stop reading just yet.

For this to work, we need to change it from a one-time thing into something more lasting—say, a couple of weeks. If it doesn’t work out, then so be it.

I want to use this opportunity to build a stronger relationship. One where I give you the attention you deserve, like not glued to my phone in the evenings. That’s a bad habit I’ve picked up, and I think this might help break it. Also, I’m hoping we’ll talk more without arguments or me misinterpreting things.

Let’s shift our focus from “me” to “we,” especially as we prepare for our son. X

This isn’t just a game; that part is mostly for my satisfaction. For me, it’s about us bonding as a couple. I want to move away from the idea that playful moments mean sex or that I do things just to earn sex. Let’s use this time to open up emotionally and listen to each other.

I also don’t really like sneaking off for masturbation behind your back—it feels disrespectful. So, this will help remove that temptation.

Rather than having intimacy come after sex, I’d prefer sex to follow intimacy. This ties into me not pestering you for intercourse or getting irritated if we haven’t had it lately. Shifting my focus from myself to us and then to you—your emotions and supporting you through pregnancy is key. Also, I’ve noticed and get annoyed with myself that sex doesn’t feel the same anymore. I’m not thinking enough about your needs: helping you get in the mood, ensuring you’re comfortable, making sure you feel special and loved. Instead, it’s often just a quick few thrusts before it’s over. I want to break this cycle and change from merely having intercourse to sharing an intimate and special connection.

Maybe after two weeks, we will be a stronger couple, more emotionally connected.

If you’d like to try this out, keep the key inside the envelope. If not, just give it back when I return home from work.

Now eight days in and going strong:):D