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So far so good. It has taken about three months to reach this stage: I am caged, traveling, my KH keeps the key at home, and she teases me via WhatsApp. I can hardly wait to return.
How did we get here? Our path is likely similar to many of yours. We have been married for 22 years—happy and settled, maybe a little too comfortable. I always had a craving to be dominated, or more specifically, to have my wife in charge, especially during sex. Sure, we tried tying each other up; she pegged me occasionally—but nothing major. I tried asking, telling, hinting, yet somehow we got stuck in the routine: regular and nice sex, pretty standard, but something was lacking.
Then came chastity… A few months back, I started reading about male chastity and felt like I had found my holy grail. I read forums and stories, then began looking for cages. I gave my wife subtle hints, but she didn’t pick up on them initially. A few weeks ago, I bought my first cage—a cheap metal knockoff—and wore it when she wasn’t home. It was highly arousing, so I decided to take the next step. One night, while my wife had her period and turned down my advances, I told her she better lock up my cock. That sparked a conversation about chastity, and you could see the spark ignite. At least, she didn’t tell me to f-o… A few nights later, when getting into bed, I handed over the key of my cage, putting her in charge. She inspected it, touched me, discussed our feelings, and that little spark began turning into a small fire.
My birthday was a week after that, and we agreed I would stay caged until then. It was tough; I had to ask her to unlock me several times because the ball rash was bothering me. Also, I realized the ring was too loose, making mountain biking impossible. When my birthday arrived, she surprised me: she put wrist and ankle cuffs on me, blindfolded me, gave me a massive tease and denial before pegging me, and finally let me lick her clean while finishing inside. Wow, I never imagined she would go that far…
Since the metal cage wasn’t my favorite, I bought several plastic ones with different ring sizes, plus CB6000s and Holy Trainers—cheap copies from Amazon. This allows me to test various types without breaking the bank. Earlier this week, I showed her the cages, and her first comment was that she preferred colored ones over clear. So, I ordered a black HoD398 and a white/green HoD PC1 as well. Next week, I will order another CB6ks in blue and red since my current one feels very comfortable.
On Thursday, I headed out on a trip for a few days. Wednesday night, she grabbed my caged cock and said ‘You’re going to wear this one on your trip, right?’ I have been trying to tell her that she can just demand it, but she is still asking me too many times: are you comfortable? Do you want me to unlock you? etc.
Even so, when she asked, it almost sent me through the roof…she was really stepping into her role…
So here I am on my trip. She has the key, though I do carry an emergency one with me. It is highly arousing knowing I walk around caged. Last night she checked in to see how her little one was doing; I sent a picture of my cock in the cage. Today I sent her some WhatsApp teases about her role as KH and also forwarded her a copy of A Keyholder’s Handbook by Georgia Green.
Let us hope she reads it, and we both grow into this dynamic. The signs are good so far…
I will update you when I return…