MikeJames On the Road to Being Locked Up

So I shared the post below in the Hello World thread. The second one will follow up…and oh, do I have updates! Hi everyone. Newcomer here from Los Angeles. For about five years now, the concept of chastity has really excited me and it’s reached a point where I need to take action. My wife is fairly traditional/standard, so I’ve been too scared to bring up This past week things have become overwhelming for me, so I decided to just stop masturbating. I ordered two cages that I planned on wearing secretly for some time. They haven’t arrived yet and my wife doesn’t know. Anyway, after five days of no masturbation I’m going mad. I’ve decided to channel all that sexual energy into pleasing my wife. I masturbate daily and honestly it has negatively affected our sex life. When my wife is in the mood, I often am not because I already did earlier in the day. This sucks for her and isn’t fair; she doesn’t deserve that. She thinks I don’t find her attractive enough. Last night, after five days without masturbating, I took her to the bedroom and went down on her…HARD. Then we had intercourse, but just as I was about to finish, I pulled out and went back down. I brought her to a wild orgasm and then when she offered to reciprocate, I simply said no because tonight was for you. She insisted on getting me off, but I held my ground that I wanted to “save it” until tomorrow and just lust over her all night long. I promised that if she agreed to let me go without finishing, I would go down on her again first thing in the morning. I think she thought it was a bit odd, but that’s how we ended the night. I could barely sleep because I was so horny. First thing in the morning, I woke her up and started kissing her neck. Within minutes, I was between her legs licking her passionately. Like last night, I switched back and forth between licking her and intercourse. After she came, I got up, put on my shorts, and said “all for you, none for me.” Again, she wanted to get me off, but I told her that I don’t think I should cum. She looked at me with a confused expression, so I explained that I think I masturbate too much and it’s hurting our sex life; it’s unfair to her and I’m sorry. I said I feel bad about it and believe I need to do something serious to break the habit. She asked “stop masturbating?”…I replied no, I think I need to stop cumming for a while and focus on you. I told her I really want to fix this but need her help. She asked how she could help. I said that I wanted her to ask me to promise not to masturbate for a month. I told her I wanted her to let me lick her when I’m really frustrated, and most importantly, I wanted her to stop stimulating me whenever I tell her I’m about to cum. To my surprise, she thinks this is a great idea. She said she’s all in and promised not to let me get off this month unless I “cheat on her” by masturbating. I again promised I wouldn’t. I asked for a hand job for a bit; take me super close but stop. She did that and then we layed in bed talking for a while. Then I had to get up and log in to work because I’m working remotely with all the covid19 stuff going on. I told her I wanted to lick her again at lunchtime, and she said ok. I also pm2ayed dumbly and asked “i wonder if they have chastity belts for men bc i am not really sure i can go all month”…she was like of course they do its probably some locking leather thong or like metal cage or something. Im certain she has no idea about these things but i told her i think i might ending up needing one. She kind of laughed and said dont be ridiculous just do not touch yourself. She did say that it would be fun to have me locked in something and that id be her slave and she already loves all the attention… I actually think she is open to a device but i want to introduce it delicately. I will keep my promise and not masterbate but i think in a week im going to be out of my mind. I think then i will show her a decice online and just tell her i really think i need it to keep my promise… It is so surreal that she seems so open to this bc shes always been so vanilla…but maybe my masterbation habit really has bothered her and shes willing to try anything to fix it. I want so badly for her to lock me up and be really firm with me. I want to completely give up my pleasure for hers. Here’s to hoping this really blooms into something serious!

Ok....So i wrote a book about chastity from a woman's perspective and had my wife read it. She doesn't know I wrote it, and while i don't like deception I will come clean at some point. Anyway, the book will be made available and I'm happy to let anyone use it. It contains basically all my chastity fantasies but written as if a woman wrote it. My wife has been loving our 1 month honor system chastity but was iffy about a cage coming into play. The other night, maybe 12 days into honor system chastity she edged me mercilessly with BJ, handy, and intercourse always stopped as I came close. She edged my at least 15 times before telling me to go down on her and give her an orgasm. I went to bed and she went to watch TV. I texted her from bed telling her I think we should cage me bc I was SO horny I didn't know if I had a few more weeks in me. She was kind of receptive but kind of told me to just go calm down. Next morning came to the living room and she started asking me about my texts. I told her I had this thing to read and she seems like 20% interested and mostly like it wasn't going anywhere. Over the next few days I put more pressure on her than I wanted to...to just read it. Finally the other night she read it. when she was done she said i should just go ahead and order whatever it was I needed but that she's not really sure about it all. I told her I already ordered a cage and it would come in a few weeks. She said ok. The next night she read the last couple pages of the book and started saying things like "I guess I'll have to start pegging you now huh?"....and "is that what you want babe? You want me to lock you up and fuck you?". I said yes. She said "well this book you wanted me to read so badly says you only cum when I want and you get no say in it, maybe I don't think you need to cum very much". I said "yeah I mean it's whatever you want". She said "well this book said quarterly orgasms are more than fair, and the author said she only lets her husband cum once or twice per year". I told her she didn't need to take everything completely literally and that I'd be ok with cumming every few weeks or once a month. She just said "no that's way too often. If you want this, you're going to really get it"...... I was shocked how receptive she was being but I started getting a little nervous. She told me to go ahead and order pegging stuff and told me I better find a good hiding place so the kids never find any of this stuff. I said ok. She told me to go wait in the guest bedroom and wait for her while she got the baby to sleep. I laid in the guest bedroom for almost a half hour and almost fell asleep. When she came in she aggressively yanked my shorts down and commenced a brutal edging session that included lots of intercourse stopped short. I could barely last 5-10 pumps before having to pull out. She just kept saying "you better not cum, I mean it". Over and over again at least 15 times. She then asked "what's wrong you can't handle it anymore?". At this point I was like 2 or 3 pumps before having to stop. When I said "yeah it's too much I need to stop" she said "you'll stop when I say". I had at least 5 more edges like this before she pushed me off and just bluntly said "you can eat me out now". It took about 5 mins of oral for me to get her off and she said it was one of her best orgasms. We then laid there, me incredibly frustrated and her totally satisfied. She rubbed my head and we just talked. She asked some more basic logistics questions. She asked when my cage was coming and I said 1 to 2 weeks. She noted that that's about the same time my month will be up. So naturally I asked her if that meant she would still let me cum at the end of my honor system month, or if the cage came around the same time if that meant she'd make me wear it for a while before getting my orgasm...she said "I didn't think of that...hmmm I'm not really sure about that now, but when you cum really isn't any of your business anymore is it....so we'll see how I feel then". We then went back to the living room to watch tv for a while before I went off to bed insanely frustrated and horny. This morning she asked me again when the cage was coming and I said a few weeks. She said I hope you ordered a very small one, the book said a cock as small as yours needs like a 1 to 1.5 inch cage and if we're doing this I expect you were responsible enough to order the tiny cage you need. I ensured her I measured perfectly per MM's website instructions and she said good. I reminded her that at least 1 key should be available to me for emergencies and she just said, "no, i'm getting both keys". I said well babe what if something happens and I really need to get it off. She said you call me and I'll assess how serious it is. I do think I need to get her to understand that there could be a legit reason why a key needs to be available and that we can put it in a sealed envelope or something with tamper evident tape. I'm actually scared she may not appreciate that a real emergency could arise. She also joked that I should get pierced, but i think she was trying to gauge how "weird" i am....I totally do want a PA, but i'm not bringing that up any time soon. If this goes well and she really does like chastity then in a few months i'll suggest it. She has kind of made it clear she's doing this to "go along" with what I want. Im not sure this turns her on at all, but last night when fooling around and she was bitchily denying me she was wetter than I think Ive ever seen her. As much as i love this and am enjoying all this honor system chastity, im really hoping i get to cum in 2 weeks and she doesnt just lock me up for another month. She seems to have taken too literally the long lock ups i wrote about in the book! Ill keep posting here to update on how this is going. I will make the book i wrote available soon. I just need to figure out how to add attachments. I think it may help some of you guys trying to get your wives to go along with this.

Would have to say if you believe you can write about male chastity from a females perspective youre sucking dream tablets!! You may be capable of writing about how youd like them to feel about it but you have zero idea as most of us here have discovered over the years. If you think youre fooling Her with this then i suspect youre in for a surprise or two. MsM’s ld