Question about excessive leaking...

Hello everyone…to start off, I am self-locked but my wife is aware. She understands that I lock up to manage masturbation. We don’t talk about it much, nor do I try to hide it. Often enough, my cage sits on the vanity drying after a cleaning, and occasionally she moves it so as not to encroach on ‘her’ counter space. So, regarding my question about leaking. It appears that I leak quite a bit while caged. I’m unsure if this is due to strained erections going flaccid and then releasing fluid, or just naturally letting out some of the pent-up buildup. Having been caged for only six months now, it’s still new territory for me. But I ask because tonight, as we were leaving a restaurant, my wife noticed what she called a large wet spot on the back of my kilt/skirt and asked if I felt damp. At first, I thought I might have sat in a puddle on the booth seat. But after checking when we got home, I found precum right there where I had been sitting. Maybe I should be mindful not to wear light colors or thin fabrics. Or perhaps it would be better to wear panties to soak up the leaks. To me though, that feels like it undermines the freedom of wearing ONLY a cage, which is confining enough as it is. Do any of you also deal with excessive leaking?