Questions About Pa and Frenum Piercings for Chastity Devices

I’m really thinking about getting a piercing to use with my chastity device. I have two main questions:

1. Should I get the frenum or PA? It seems like PA is more popular, but people say the frenum makes urination easier (yes, I know some claim you can pee normally with a PA too). Plus, if I stop using piercings later on, the frenum might heal back up better. … Anyway, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

2. Once it’s healed, can I remove the jewelry just for intercourse? I plan to put it right back in afterward (after cleaning it up). We have sex about once or twice a week. My wife is pretty traditional and would prefer no jewelry during sex; I think I might like that too. But does taking it out increase the risk of infection significantly? Would a PA be safer than a frenum for this reason?

Thanks in advance.