A Unique Shift in Our Relationship

Everyone has their own motivations for being drawn to chastity devices and wearing them. I’d argue that we embrace cages for entirely the wrong reasons! Not truly “wrong”—they are our specific reasons, which differ vastly from what most people consider normal. We don’t use ours primarily for denial or strict chastity.

We’re a mature couple living full-time in a Master/slave dynamic (male/female) and have been doing so for over ten years. As part of this ongoing relationship structure, we set aside time at least every three months to step out of our roles and sit down as Mr & Mrs to discuss things openly. We’ve found that these free, frank conversations help us grow and refine the M/s bond into what it is today.

During one such chat last year, it emerged that we both share a strong interest in male chastity devices. The aesthetic of a caged penis and the erotic idea of being out in public while locked up appealed to us greatly. After thorough research on various options, we finally took the plunge about three months ago. Naturally, there were some initial growing pains—getting the ring size right, fitting issues—but everything is sorted now. It fits very well and comfortably.

Since starting to wear a cage regularly, we’ve noticed it adds another layer of dynamic to our M/s relationship, something we both find highly erotic.