How do you satisfy your wife in bed?

I’ve been denied intercourse for longer than my wife, our shared girlfriend or I can remember. My wife does not like to be penetrated by anything and is more of a vagina fan than a penis fan but that makes it ideal for chastity and CBT play. My wife likes to have me lick her to an orgasm twice a week and then she uses a vibrator on her clit to have a much more intense orgasm. She gets off on hearing me moan so between moaning due to sexual frustration, ball squeezing/slapping and Talon nipple clips, she has toe curling, muscle cramping orgasms all the time and then tells me to lock up if not already, and get dressed. I get no sex other than teasing when she does not want to cum and ruined orgasms a few times a year. How about you?