Explaining Male Chastity to the Reluctant KeyHolder

Need to chat with your wife/partner about wanting Male Chastity? Here is a clear way to explain it. “Many women struggle to understand male chastity. Why does he want his penis locked up and you holding the key? The first thing, don’t over analyze this. He isn’t dissatisfied with you or making statements about your relationship. Quite the opposite is true. He loves you and trusts you enough to share a desire that he would never tell anyone else. Simply put, he is giving you a gift. You have plenty of time to research what Male Chastity is all about, but here is a straightforward way to think of it and fit it into your relationship in the beginning. Accept the gift he is offering. Once you lock him up, his penis is yours. One way to think about it is that his penis is your toy. He doesn’t own it, it belongs to you. It’s just parked on his body. It exists for your pleasure and amusement. If you allow him to play with it excessively, it distracts from your quality time together and may affect his sexual performance. This may be why he is offering this gift to you to begin with. Unknown to you, he may be overindulging in self pleasuring. Now that you have taken control of it, you can take it out and play with it anytime you wish, and then put it safely back in its cage when you are done. The two of you spend valuable time together and become closer. It’s a win-win for both of you. If you think of it this way, you will find it much easier to incorporate chastity in your relationship. You aren’t locking something of his up. You are keeping your toy safe. You’ll be surprised how powerful this concept is.”