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First off, I want to make it clear that I’m not trying to skimp on this purchase. My wife is willing to give chastity a try as long as she remains comfortable. She’s fairly conventional rather than hardcore. Naturally somewhat shy when it comes to new experiences overall. She has grown significantly over the past few years, yet retains a reserved quality which is part of what I appreciate about her. We are being cautious during this initial trial period so to speak. We don’t have a device just yet. I’m relying on my word and it’s working well enough; it’s challenging but manageable. I’d like to know if there are any affordable devices that you all would trust recommending for someone starting out. I expect the wear time will be around 72-96 hours maximum during these first few months. Later, I can use those measurements as a guide when ordering a more substantial device. A softer, more flexible material suits me better because I am quite active. I go hunting, fishing, riding motorcycles, and working outside… I don’t think a metal device would suit my daily life except perhaps on weekends or during ‘playtime’. Once we settle into this new dynamic, I plan to upgrade. I’m considering a Holy Trainer for workdays and other busy days, and hopefully an MM model for when I have time off. Urination is another concern since I spend full days outdoors. Obviously, I need to pee while out there. Hygiene is crucial so my pants don’t get sprayed by urine. Sitting down isn’t practical at work, though that’s what I usually do at home anyway. I appreciate the aesthetic of metal, but I feel she might find it a bit daunting. If I can locate two reasonably priced options, I’d ideally like to acquire both a plastic or softer type device AND a metal one…