A Fresh Look at the New Chastity Cage

I just picked up my first couple of chastity gadgets. The initial one didn’t quite work out because the ring was too tight, forcing me to order a larger size.

I went with the Crazy K&A Stainless Steel Male Chastity Device Kit Cock Cage with Chain Silver (1.97” M100)..

So I have some questions for you all.

Bathroom use? Tonight was my first time peeing while wearing it. I sat down, did what needed to be done, and tried wiping around the cage opening with toilet paper.. It seemed dry enough so I put my PJs back on, but 5 minutes later something cold trickled down my leg; apparently urine leaked out after cleaning up. Any tips?

Pants use? I’m looking for a good way to conceal the device’s bulge. Even when wearing very loose pants or even pajamas, you can still see it.

Lock noise? The lock seems to rub against the device, creating a sound every time I take a step…

I want to keep it hidden under my clothes since my wife is quite traditional and might not understand or approve of what I enjoy. You wouldn’t believe all the workarounds I’ve managed so she stays in the dark about my interests (I may list some of these in another post later). Unfortunately, I married into a very orthodox household—think orthodox Judaism with a Christian twist—but looking back over 10 years now, I wish I had pondered it more deeply before committing..

Anyway, hoping someone can answer one or more of the questions above… Rivkah