Questions Asked to Husbands' Partners

Dear Ladies of the community: I was wondering if you would be willing to share a bit of your collective wisdom, please? My wife has taken to my enforced chastity idea. (I know—I AM a lucky man). We have both found that this really works for us: While going through periods where I don’t cum, I am nicer, more attentive to her, in a good mood, and feel better physically, etc. It is truly AMAZING! But after a while, I begin to feel neglected and then depressed. Here are my questions, if you are willing to share:

1. For you and your husband, what have you found is his orgasm frequency that works best to keep his attitude good, but not let him spiral off to a bad place (get depressed, get too frustrated, lose interest or whatever)?
2. Does he know when he will cum next, or do you keep him guessing?
3. What, if anything, do you do or have him do to keep his interest level up and so he does not get depressed, feel neglected, lose hope, etc? How often?
4. As a follow up to No. 3, is that even an issue on your radar screen? The longest we have gone is 4 weeks and we have done that twice. I can certainly go longer, but she has not made me (yet!). I begin to feel lonely and neglected. I wish she would edge me or spank me or whatever more. I feel more lovey than I used to and crave the contact. With more contact, I could go a lot longer, but I can’t push her too much. Thanks to any Ladies who choose to share. Bobby