My Entry to Chastity Life

I’ve been married to my wife for two decades and three years. To put it simply, I’m the more eccentric submissive in our relationship while she was traditionally minded. Back towards the end of 2012, I brought up chastity as an option. We bought a Birdlocked device early on in January 2013. It didn’t stay on me for very long—perhaps just a few weeks—because it felt uncomfortable and fit poorly. Plus, slipping out was too easy, which somewhat undermined the whole point of being locked away. Eventually we got a cb6000s, and that’s been my home ever since.

I’ve been under 24/7 lockup for quite some time now, only taken out every week or so to have her trim me up and clean everything properly. I’m using the #3 ring paired with the smallest spacer available. It took roughly a month of trial and error to dial in the perfect fit. These days, I don’t need any lubricant at all and sleep soundly through the night without waking up much. The device is secure; getting out would require significant pain or breaking it entirely. Perhaps my body just suits this particular model perfectly.

In the last year, I’ve managed to have two reined orgasms—that’s it for me so far. When we first started her conditions were:

1. Once we bought the device, I’d wear it no matter what.
2. No formal written agreements… KH holds authority and whatever she decides is final.
3. I take care of all household chores (excluding laundry).
4. Daily foot rubs and back massages for me to provide to KH.
5. No orgasm until KH gives permission.

KH has picked up a lot along the way and takes my new lifestyle seriously. I’d estimate I’m attending to her needs about five days out of seven, while she teases me almost every single day. She knows my nipples are sensitive and loves fiddling with them—it drives me mad! Believe me when I say I plead for release often enough, but she always insists I’m not quite ready yet. It seems I haven’t fully met her standards just yet.

Regardless, I enjoy having the device on and serving KH well. Still, it would be wonderful to experience an orgasm every now and then. Any advice or tips are greatly appreciated! If there’s anything I can do for you all too, don’t hesitate to ask.