Jailbird or Watchful Mistress

Where this goes next

Couples threads are logistics with feelings attached: what to write down, what to hand over, who pays for what, and how long any of it takes. Two of these pages are about the agreement itself, and the third is the honest answer about the calendar.

• What to agree before anyone is contacted
• Rules that survive contact with a real evening
• Why the search runs in months, not weekends