Chastity in the Lifestyle

I was just wondering about the mix of people on the board. So I thought I would ask: are you doing chastity just for the thrill? Is it bedroom fun? Or is chastity used as a form of further control, like in a female-led relationship (FLR)? There must be more reasons to explore chastity; if you have a different reason, care to share? Are you involved in BDSM play or toys? Since I am starting this discussion, I guess I will go first. My wife has been interested in chastity since we got together. We have explored it a couple of times but never went very far. Recently, we moved our relationship into an FLR dynamic. We hit some bumps along the way, but it is working for us. As she is now the boss, she brought back chastity, and I know she is really enjoying it. Frankly, it works for me too as a constant reminder of our new relationship. And regarding BDSM and toy play, that has always been part of our relationship. But like with family life, it became less frequent over time. I am hoping that as she gets comfortable—and since I am doing more housework—it will become an active part again, but we shall see.