general thoughts on the practice of chastity

Hello, we’ve put this game on hold temporarily due to some worries regarding a court case for medical reasons that are driving us crazy. Because we’re so concerned about it, our interest in playing chastity has waned; thus my wife and I decided to pause until we resolve these issues, hopefully by early next year. Recently I’ve been reflecting on how this started. Besides the fact that we play based on scores earned through a card game (so when luck is with me, my locking period is quite short), I was thinking about how one adapts over time. To begin with, I only had 3 days of denial initially. The anticipation kept me going, and by day three, my wife allowed me to release after just three strokes. Now, after spending 10-12 days in the device, it takes at least ten strokes for me to cum, even though I’ve been doing some edging sessions during this time. Is that your experience too? Do you suspend chastity when life gets very busy?