Climaxing Too Soon

For over a year and a half, chastity was mainly during my wife’s period. In that time frame, I got edged quite often with one or two ruined orgasms each month. Now, living full-time in the cage at home, we shifted to allowing just one orgasm per month. It had been well…1.4 years since I last truly climaxed, so I was nervous. I really hoped for lots of build-up and edging, but my wife decided to get straight to business and finish me off quickly. I was a bit disappointed and resisted at first, but she wanted the release, so after about three minutes of great oral sex, I came. I have to admit it was thrilling to wait 30 days only for that single stimulation to end so fast. Also, I missed the usual drop in pressure I feel when building up for a big one. We discussed it and decided maybe quickies are the way forward. Does anyone here prefer a long build-up or the “git er done” method?