How the heck do you all handle it?

My wife is clearly the sexually dominant partner in our marriage. She was looking into MC and got the feeling it would significantly cut down her immediate access to my cock…when she wants a hard cock inside her pussy, or wants me for oral sex (or just an edge with a good sucking job) as part of snowballing…she needs it right now. Her worry is having to wait while I clean up after being locked up…she has very little patience. Do metal cage style devices hold up better to constant cleaning? She enjoys teasing me by rough cock milking every night…and, if luck is on my side, followed by fucking and oral cleanup. It seems a chastity device might make things more complicated.