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cagedmonkey has some reflections on our new chastity lifestyle and wanted to share his comments. Since he isn’t permitted to read or post here without my go-ahead, I’m passing along his thoughts: “My Lady and I admittedly dove into this male chastity thing pretty rapidly. We discussed everything thoroughly and did plenty of research, but things accelerated quickly once we got going - from buying our first CB6000s device to ordering a custom-made steel one in just a couple weeks! Even though we moved fast, I felt somewhat prepared for our new life with chastity. There were a few surprises:
- The comfort level of the device - I expected to always be aware of the cage on me, feeling it throughout the day with every step. But now it’s almost like another piece of clothing; sometimes I don’t even notice it until I move in a certain way.
- The discomfort of the device - I knew the cage would confine erections, but didn’t realize how much pressure would be on my balls too. My off-the-shelf Bird cage gives me about half an inch or so of space to grow at the end of the shaft. When I start getting hard, the cage pushes up and squeezes my balls very tight. Hopefully our custom ordered cage will help a bit with this.
- How easily chastity integrates into my life - wearing the cage allows me to do light workouts, play sports with my kids, and get around at work without problems. I was surprised by how well the cage hides under my clothing; I expected having to buy an entirely new wardrobe!
- My Lady’s enthusiasm - this was the MOST surprising! To be honest, she might be MORE enthusiastic about chastity than I am, which is certainly saying something!” Feel free to comment at cagedmonkey and I will relay any messages!:) ~Lady