Lisaesq Reflections from a New Chastity Wife

To begin with, I am not currently a KeyHolder. Metaphorically speaking, I expect to become one possibly as early as Sunday, but most likely it will happen on Monday. Where should I start? The fundamentals, perhaps? Most of this was covered in the hello section when I first joined, but for the sake of putting everything together… I am 26 and getting married tomorrow. My future husband is a bit older than me; he is a widower aged 47. MC (Male Chastity) played a role in his previous marriage to his late wife, and he really wants it to be part of our life too. I do not like simply recreating the experiences she had with him—everyone knows that “that’s not how Janice did it” or similar phrases are the fastest way to see my cold side. It is nothing personal; I never met her, but I do not want to live in competition with a ghost. So, long story short, I agreed to try this MC lifestyle for him. But on my terms, meaning he plays no part in how I learn about it. That leads me here to the site and thread. I have done quite a bit of “research” online regarding the topic. Most results were more unsettling than helpful, but this place seems different, so I am relying on its members for assistance. Please feel free to jump in with comments, tips, advice, etc., as I navigate my journey. Remember, I am very open-minded and hard to offend. I have sown some “wild oats” myself and already have experience with kink, mostly from the submissive side. Well, inspiration struck while I was changing after tonight’s rehearsal dinner. Now I am heading out to meet up with a few of “the girls” at the bar, while my future husband goes off for his “bachelor party.” I actually look forward to hearing what his best “man” organized, especially since it is his daughter. Stay tuned for updates. -L