Disappointment with Chastity Results

Well, after finally getting “serious” and going for 2.5 weeks locked up (my longest yet) I’ve got to say reality hasn’t turned out to be all that spectacular. From around the 1 week mark I had permanent blue balls and was sick of wearing the damn thing. By release date I was no longer interested in the game or even sex in general and when I finally did get to cum it may as well have been a ruined orgasm. Rather than the “full body” orgasm I was expecting it turned out to be a total non-event, and a follow up wank the morning after wasn’t any better. The increased intimacy I hoped for hasn’t happened. As a matter of fact the only difference is before I had orgasms and now I don’t, and after a couple of weeks that’s not as exciting as it first sounded. It’s downright dull in fact, even with T&D a couple of times per week (which I started to dread more than enjoy anyway). I don’t know whether to try going back to a shorter term fantasy type thing or if the fantasy is now ruined by the dreariness of reality. Maybe I should just forget about it for a while… Has anyone else found chastity hasn’t met their expectations?