Jimi's Progress Along the Curve

Atone wrote:Jimi, As I have mentioned in the past, I think people have a hard time figuring out just what you are saying or who you are responding to. I would suggest just sticking to one observation or one question at a time. You don’t have to try to include everything in one post, it just confuses people (at least it does me). If you want a thread starter I would love to hear how things are working out in your ‘Curve’. -A I admit it could be me. I’m not being as clear as I could be and tend to comment off the cuff rather then sit down and be as specific as I should (And actually like that from others btw) The Curve. Fit wise its been a real problem. The scrotum area started getting “sawed” into:o:shock: which made me really think hard how much I wanted to do this. I should mention that I had had a conversation with my wife about doing this and that if it sounded like a good idea we could give it a roll. She was to say the least torn. She thought it sounded “hot” but told me that honestly the problem would be that she was pretty sure I would end up being ignored. A lot… I’ve seen a couple posts by Keyholders who admitted this was what happened and it was good that the men they locked were so into this that they didn’t mind. So… I had a serious think on it. Is it kinky and exciting enough to go though a lot of being ignored and pile on lots of work staying clean, sanding down devices buying new ones etc? Chastity and denial are not really high on my list of things that I want in and of themselves. I’m willing to do them if it helps our relationship but with the mechanical issue? For now I’ve decided to focus on the specific things that make or don’t make our relationship work. The page by Dr. Tanya Larisse on using Chastity to make the ideal husband at least gave me some specific ideas of things to change that have improved things. The Kept for him site also has a number of specific points that have given me lots of food for thought. So as weird as this sounds I’m taking the behavior stuff from the mix and leaving the mechanical stuff on the nightstand.