Pregnancy and IVF Options

My wife and I have been trying to conceive for some time now without success. We are in our fourth month, and honestly, the number of orgasms I’ve had is really bothering me. Don’t misunderstand; I adore sex—I could go on forever—but I wish I didn’t need to climax at the end. Like many others here, once my needs are met, old habits return. You can probably guess what they are. Let’s just say that for me to be—and remain—a devoted husband and a healthy person, orgasm must be fully denied. Period. No exceptions, except one: conception.

Although it is still early days, we have discussed fertility testing to ensure our chances are good, and I realized there might be another path. If I can collect semen via prostate massage, perhaps we don’t just need a test but could also use artificial methods to impregnate my wife. It is certainly possible, allows for better timing of sperm introduction, and means I won’t have to rush home from work because she is ovulating.

I am somewhat skeptical about collecting it myself since we haven’t really done anal play yet, and I’m not sure where to find the medical gear to store and introduce the “specimen” properly. However, with good guidance and sanitary equipment, even self-collection might work. I don’t want to spend a fortune on high-end technology beyond basic sperm testing and collection/introduction. The key requirement is using prostate massage instead of masturbation for collection. This seems well within standard medical practice and could allow my wife to get pregnant without me having an orgasm.:shock:

For us, this would be the ideal solution—it removes my last “exception” and thus my last hope for a truly stimulated, unspoiled orgasm. I don’t plan on spoiling them anyway, but I must acknowledge the possibility that perhaps a small device could ensure any ejaculation brings more pain than pleasure. I’ve never had an orgasm induced by the prostate; even if one happens during collection with this method, the increased chance of success means it should only happen once. If self-collection is feasible, cooling my penis during the milking process generally halts those orgasm-like feelings.

I will keep researching, but any information you have on this would be much appreciated. I am particularly unfamiliar with prostate massage/milking beyond knowing that even long-term OD doesn’t strictly require it; however, I don’t know its effects well enough to ask my wife for such a favor—especially since it took her two years just to accept chastity! Asking her to wear a glove and insert her fingers up my rear? Doubtful. But if this method introduces benefits like increased sex drive, intense pleasure without climax (temporary or permanent with practice), then it is certainly relevant to me.:twisted: