Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone. Since this is my debut post here, I wanted to drop a hello and express my anticipation for diving into the numerous threads on this platform. For roughly half a year now, I’ve been exploring chastity, doing research while quietly observing from the sidelines. Once I realized it was right for me, I brought it up with my spouse. I felt quite anxious about her reaction and words. She agreed to try it out and see how things unfold. Initially, we relied on trust, but I wanted more structure. She wasn’t keen on metal gear, so she picked a white Holy Trainer; while comfortable, the security didn’t fully meet my needs. After getting used to seeing me in a device, she soon allowed me into a steel cage. The sense of safety when that first lock clicked was overwhelming. There is no escaping this thing. From then on, I felt truly locked up and very content. It’s been a process of small steps, with us still figuring out teasing, denial, and what we can both enjoy from the experience. We’re keeping it relaxed, treating it like the game it really is. I’ve been in the cage since September 3rd. I’m not sure when release or permission to cum will come. There have been some nights without sleep as my body adjusts to wearing the device around the clock. Sometimes I barely notice it; other times, it feels like pleasant hardship. I find myself much more focused on my keyholder. I can’t quite explain why but I feel a constant need to please her. She even claims my oral abilities have gotten better already. Success. I’m a very happy and fortunate fellow.