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I was going through a thread from May and wanted to bring the topic back up. Recently, I finished a keyholding relationship with a man in his early twenties. His age might not be the main factor here compared to his personality, though the two seem linked. He was a quiet, studious guy with very little sexual experience underneath all that beautiful young horniness and lack of know-how. I never quite figured out why he wanted to wear the cage. I used this time to help him learn how to value his own sexuality and see women as whole people rather than just body parts. I had him speak up about what he wanted, helping him move away from clichéd porn terminology. But my question is really about motivation: Why do young men want to be caged and controlled? What drives it? (I know this is a generalization, but I’d love your thoughts.) MM