member_377e1250b2
- Posting sinceAug 2026
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Hi everyone,
I’m Sebby from London, England.
As a newcomer to the forum, I wanted to introduce myself. A couple of years back, if anyone had predicted that my cock would be locked and I’d become an enthusiastic advocate for male chastity, I probably would have laughed hysterically. When I first started dating my wife, Male Chastity was far from my mind. Looking back now, I realize how self-centered I used to be—a classic Alpha Male mindset where pleasure existed solely for my own gratification.
Things reached a point where our marriage faced serious strain and was nearly collapsing. My wife then proposed we try the chastity lifestyle along with female-led leadership in our relationship. It turned out to be one of the best choices we ever made, and both of us are very pleased with how it has worked for us.
This naturally required significant changes in both our daily routine and intimacy. I have been locked since September 2011, averaging only about three orgasms per year. I’ve learned to please my wife primarily through oral sex. Additionally, I handle most of the household chores and help raise our two sons.
There’s also quite a mental adjustment involved; being confined in a Carrara belt means I rarely get to see my willy, which can feel somewhat emasculating! I won’t overwhelm everyone with excessive detail here, so please feel free to ask me anything if you’re curious.
Looking forward to hearing from all of you. Seb