Introductions discussion

I’m a man of 55 who is wonderfully enjoying the best years yet. I’ve been married for twelve years (this being my second marriage), and seven years back, a close female friend joined our home to become my partner. We share our life, work, and travels together. While throuple dynamics have their rough patches, it’s an amazing experience having two intelligent, loving, genuine women around me. Our dynamic isn’t strictly male-led or female-led; instead, we aim for equal consultation and mutual agreement.

I’ve been playing with chastity devices for ten years now. I’m not completely certain why I keep returning to them, given that I practiced tantric sex earlier in life and can achieve orgasm without ejaculation, as well as ejaculate without an orgasm. This means my partners can manage me through simple commands. However, I discover that wearing a cage allows stronger, more feminine, and partner-centric emotions to surface. The restriction of erections feels highly emotional yet very reassuring and secure. My partners are supportive and willing to share keyholding duties, though neither leans heavily into strong dominance.

I possess a Belgian full belt (Carrara) and a Steelworxx Looker 2, and over the years I’ve experimented with several lighter devices. Despite this experience, I consider myself an amateur short-term wearer who is still impressed by many of you here on the forum.

This community has been very educational for me, and I hope to continue reading and exchanging thoughts with those who elevate their relationships emotionally through chastity or other paths.