Introductions discussion

Hello everyone,

I’ve been part of the community here for a while now. I stepped away from my CB for roughly six months due to various reasons that aren’t worth detailing (nothing bad, really—our family was just incredibly busy). During those quieter times, I truly missed having my CB on. It felt like home: snug and submissive. While locked, the presence of it never left me, giving me the sense that my wife’s hand was always resting gently on my cock. Even when she wasn’t in the mood for intimacy, I found comfort knowing I couldn’t bother her.

Conversely, being free from the device has made me feel a bit empty inside.

If you recall my earlier threads, my wife is extremely vanilla (whereas I’m a secret closeted fetish/kinky devil). When I first bought the cb6000 and foolishly asked her to hold onto the key after just showing it to her, she was quite unhappy. She felt hurt that I hadn’t discussed it with her or included her in the decision. However, through some deep reflection on both our sides, she came around to accepting my preference for it. To her mind, it might have been “FOR ME” as a bit of fun, even though I insisted it was about her.

Back to more recent events…

A couple of weeks ago, my wife asked where the device had gone. We searched but realized that during our period of chastity abstinence—while we were hosting many visitors—we must have packed the cb6000 away in storage. She was genuinely disappointed that we couldn’t locate it.

Last week, she eagerly mentioned (as I approached my 40th birthday) that she really wanted me back inside a chastity device. Since we hadn’t found the old one, she instructed me to order a new one ASAP.

So last night, we settled into bed with our laptop and opened Lovehoney, a UK sex toy retailer. This was something neither of us had ever done together before. We selected the cb6000 again (luckily I still have my old cage), and then my wife told me to go to the end of the bed and pleasure her while she purchased some extra items.

OH MY GOD—it felt so new!

Afterward, she asked me to pay for the cart contents and then let her use the vibrator on me. She was incredibly horny, almost bursting! Eventually, she took control… and then announced she wanted to order even more tonight!!!!

And now:

• I just received an email confirming my delivery is coming tomorrow.
• Once it arrives, I’ve been told to put it on immediately.
• Tonight, my wife plans to buy toys for me/us/her.
• Tomorrow morning, she’s taking the kids to their grandparents for a few days.
• We’re heading out for a long walk and dinner tomorrow night with the device still locked in place.
• My husband has other exciting toys ready for us (or perhaps mostly her) when we return home tonight.

I’m not quite sure what’s happened to my wife, but good heavens—I can’t wait to please her while I remain locked and frustrated.

QUESTION - HAS ANYONE HERE BEEN TALKING TO MY WIFE?

So why am I posting in the Foyer? Because I feel like a new, excited angel with a frustration that feels right. My wife has decided to embrace her dominant side and sees how much she can enjoy my submissive nature.

Perhaps next month I might be shouting - WHY DID I ASK FOR THIS?

Maybe this whole thing is just a phase? However, I don’t think so…

Love to you all, and I’ll keep you posted.