Female led relationships discussion

This topic has come up in other discussions before, but I’m curious to hear what your friends are aware of and how they take it. I see three groups: those who know everything, those with some knowledge, and those completely in the dark. Personally, I’m quite open about not hiding much regarding my ownership over my husband. All my friends are aware. My younger sister knows too. But my parents don’t. I keep quiet with people I don’t know well, though I’m not secretive either. They just see a man who is deeply devoted to his Wife. I also have a female sub, and generally, I respect her wish for a vanilla life apart from mine. However, the two lives aren’t totally separate. Since I took charge of her, she wears much more revealing clothes. She needs my go-ahead for any sexual activity. But aside from her clothing choices, most people don’t realize someone else owns her. I’d love to hear your stories.