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Let me start by sharing a bit about myself. I am currently 57 and have been married for 34 years. Eighteen years ago, my wife had an affair which cuckolded me; you can check out the forums if you haven’t already to read more about that experience. We are parents to two adult children, one of whom is 27 and still lives with us. Her extramarital relationship went on for over two years. As far as I know, we have remained happily married since then.

Menopause hasn’t been too kind to my wife. She suffers from hot flashes, leg tremors, vaginal dryness, and a reduced libido. Meanwhile, thanks to the internet and porn, my own sex drive has gone up. I likely masturbate more than ten times a week, and on days when I get the opportunity, that number can hit four.

My journey into chastity started roughly four years ago. Before the internet made it all accessible, I had no idea such things existed. Reading stories about submissives locked in devices with their Mistress in control really excited me.

Sure enough, after searching around, I discovered Chastity Devices available for purchase. About six months later—around 2004—I bought a CB-3000. My wife didn’t know about it at first. I wore it intermittently for a couple of weeks to ensure comfort and fit. Once convinced it worked, I had to present my desire to try this lifestyle to her. For me, that was difficult. I believe I downloaded information from Mistress Sutton’s site, printed it out, and gave the papers to my wife. Honestly, I feared she might divorce me, thinking I had lost my mind.

My next post covers how I presented the idea to her and what happened.