Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

So… weeks went by before I found a way to secure the Birdlocked that wouldn’t fail after half an hour. Months more passed as I planted the seed with my girlfriend, hoping she might actually enjoy playing along. Then last night came the surprise, delight, and fear: she told me, “I think it’s time we lock you up”. Thus began my first real night in chastity under a keyholder (though I’ve experimented solo on occasion before). This morning, stepping into the shower and soaping up… down went the damn thing! Argh. I’m not really keen on her locking me when she’s physically present, but I desperately wanted her to lock me while traveling for work. Now I’m wondering how that will happen.