Introductions discussion

Hi everyone, I’ve been following the site for some time now, but this is barely my first or second contribution. I’ve experimented with various chastity devices over the last few years, so I’m not a total newcomer to the scene. My main challenge as someone older and dealing with reduced libido is that extended periods without release aren’t too difficult for me. While I can still get erections, they tend to fade quickly; combining device wear with abstinence keeps things interesting. I haven’t quite worked up the courage to bring it up with my wife yet, but since our sexual activity has dropped off significantly anyway, concealing my device is manageable. Do any of you share this predicament? I’d love your thoughts, and if there are anyone from Texas on here, please say hello.