Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone,

I realize I’ve been a bit quiet and haven’t properly introduced myself. I’m an average middle-aged guy who’s simply enjoying the ride. Following a divorce, I met my soulmate. We fell in love and tied the knot, even after she discovered my affection for smooth, alluring, soft, sugary, feminine apparel. It began when she found a pair of panties that looked like hers but were clearly worn by me one night. After several hours of passionate confession about my panty-wearing habit and general taste in women’s clothes, things improved greatly between us.

We started shopping for men’s wear with a female twist, and I’d dress up on occasion. Early in our relationship, she gifted me pink, lacy teddies and panties for Christmas. For my subsequent birthday, she planned an ocean getaway, though only then did I discover that Tanya was accompanying us. We spent the day bathing, shaving, and dressing Tanya up, capturing many photos (before digital cameras became ubiquitous). Some didn’t turn out as well as others. She had me step onto the balcony for the best shots with the sea behind me, before tying me to the bed for hours of teasing. That sealed it; I knew she was my person.

Tanya has mostly remained in our home for our pleasure until one year when I took a class out of town and stayed at a large motel during their Halloween Party. Suggesting we get a room sounded fun, so my wife proposed inviting Tanya to the party too. After some more shopping, suddenly there was Tanya walking down the hall with her lesbian partner toward the event. Once past the initial nerves—and fueled by cocktails—I really enjoyed myself. We sat at large round tables; most people didn’t give us a second glance until I headed into the men’s restroom. I feared being escorted out until my voice gave me away, revealing that manly tone coming from a female-presenting body.

I went to the bar for drinks, and the cocktail server nearly fell over when my deep male voice answered her call while she was serving someone else. She called her coworker over to verify what they were seeing. They encouraged me to enter the Costume Contest. I returned to tell my wife about the incident at both the bathroom and the bar. The couple seated nearby, strangers we didn’t know well, had been listening and urged us to join in; they assumed we were just a lesbian couple out for an evening on the town.

We approached the entry table where two women were collecting information and asked why we were participating. We told them we were lovers. They questioned what category we fit into given our presentation but eventually accepted it, wondering how I could win such a contest among other costumes. We explained that despite my appearance, I wasn’t biologically female. The judges laughed heartily, gathered around to hear the full story of who I truly was under the dress and bra. We won an award, and Tanya had the time of her life out on the town.

That marked the last major outing for Tanya in public form for a while. Life became busy as we settled our affairs, but now things are calming down, and Tanya visits more often online and offline. Recently, she discovered Chastity culture on the web. I have always adored bondage and that thrilling fear of being caught while dressed femininely or locked up. This lifestyle fits perfectly because it allows me to be secured at any moment without others knowing for sure.

Wearing my Neosteel She-Male belt makes me feel incredibly feminine; visually, there is no doubt I appear penis-less. The moment the lock clicks into place, my mind spins with possibilities. I think about dressing further up and pleasing my Mistress/Wife while fantasizing about Tanya’s future adventures. I spend countless hours browsing the community website and shopping online for new pieces for her collection. My head gets full of stories and ideas, leading me to wake in the middle of the night to write them down.

We love having Tanya over for photo shoots; digital cameras make it so easy to capture the perfect shot, edit it, and share it with you all. It makes me feel like I’m out on the town again too.

I enjoy reading others’ thoughts and activities regarding this significant part of my current life. While I lurk quite a bit without offering much opinion in real-time, please do consider sharing your views here. Thank you for providing us with a space to read, converse, share our passion for Chastity, and discuss the paths our lives might take.

Missy Tanya