Female led relationships discussion

Hi everyone, I’m hoping you can give me some advice to help manage my sense of guilt. Over the last few years, I’ve experimented with chastity a couple of times alongside my husband; usually it lasts around a month before we both get bored. This time, however, we’re engaging in it with much greater intensity. My husband is being more cautious and tentative, which I am really enjoying. The issue for me is guilt, which might seem odd to some. I feel guilty when asking him to handle household tasks like tidying up. I also feel bad about denying him pleasure while I’m experiencing such intense satisfaction myself. He’d prefer if I took charge more often, but I find it hard to be dominant. Interestingly, he was the one who initiated our start in chastity. Any thoughts or suggestions would be very much appreciated. Love, Leanne